Communicating with your child

 

Every interaction you have with your child is a form of communication It's not just about the words you say: The tone of your voice, the look in your eyes and the hugs and kisses you give – all convey messages to your child. The way you communicate with your child not only teaches them how to communicate with others, it shapes their emotional development and how they build relationships later in life.

What are the types of communication?

 Communication can take two forms: verbal and nonverbal.

Verbal communication

Having appropriate verbal communication with your child involves using positive body language, giving them an opportunity to speak, and building their confidence and conversation skills. Encouraging participation, showing interest, and being warm and open can also help build relationships and reduce shyness or nervousness. It's important to involve children in discussions about their care, listen to and respect their views, and explain things using language they can understand.

Effective communication with your child is not just about the words you say: The tone of your voice, the look in your eyes, and the hugs and kisses you give all convey messages to your child. The way you communicate with your child not only teaches them how to communicate with others, it shapes their emotional development and how they build relationships later in life.

Nonverbal communication is an important part of how we communicate with our children. It includes things like facial expressions, eye contact, personal space, hand gestures, and physical touch like a hug². To communicate with a non-verbal child, you can try imitating the child’s play and use language to describe what they are doing, repeating core words and using visual and assistive communication supports, such as pictures, gestures, or signs. You can also touch your child’s arm, use eye contact, and bend down to their level to show interest and attention. Using your body language to show empathy and understanding of their feelings is also helpful¹. Engaging in activities that encourage social interaction and emotional expression can also be beneficial¹. Is there anything specific you would like to know?

Some tips for effective verbal communication with your child include active listening, reflective listening, speaking clearly, avoiding bribes, and using kind language.